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This is a difficult question for me. I do not know that I can answer it with any degree of accuracy. I do know I have arisen once more to another day to live the best I can.
I have lived with pain of one sort or another most of my 60 years of life. I learned that in my body there is always something working that does not hurt and I would feel that area not hurting. I learned in my mind there are pleasant dreams and memories to sustain my thinking. And sleep was always a blessing; a refuge when life was difficult and a celebration when it was not so hard. None of those practices solved the problem of pain, but it did allow me to have moments of relief which were ...
I have lived with pain of one sort or another most of my 60 years of life. I learned that in my body there is always something working that does not hurt and I would feel that area not hurting. I learned in my mind there are pleasant dreams and memories to sustain my thinking. And sleep was always a blessing; a refuge when life was difficult and a celebration when it was not so hard. None of those practices solved the problem of pain, but it did allow me to have moments of relief which were bridges to allow me to continue on the journey. It also cultivated a conscious sense of gratitude, which grew to become an integral part of my life.
The wind, rain, my beloved cooking, silence.
I already subscribe to this belief. I still have not learned how to enjoy the more painful challenges. I appreciate them, but breathe a sigh of relief and gladness when they are over.
I find nothing in particular inspiring me at this moment. I am thankful I can breathe, feel no pain, have a cup of hot coffee and sit quietly in my chair while I read and bless the people who have written on this post.
We are from the same source and will return to that source. However, our paths are different and must be respected.
I forgive my adult daughter for her accusations and rejection of me. I forgive myself for wanting more than she is capable of giving.
God bless your memories, Caroline.
I love your phrase “more of a composting than growth phase. “, KC! I think I may be in that phase, too. Thank you for those words!! My day just got better!
I understand your dilemma, Antoinette. You are wise to allow yourself a bit of space and time. My working definition of love is that it does what is in the best interests of the beloved. Sometimes you are the lover, sometimes you are the beloved, sometimes you are both. Parenting is difficult and no matter what you do, he may not remember with any degree of accuracy what actually transpired. You are being present, wanting to respond in and with love. Respond with love and do and say what you...
I understand your dilemma, Antoinette. You are wise to allow yourself a bit of space and time. My working definition of love is that it does what is in the best interests of the beloved. Sometimes you are the lover, sometimes you are the beloved, sometimes you are both. Parenting is difficult and no matter what you do, he may not remember with any degree of accuracy what actually transpired. You are being present, wanting to respond in and with love. Respond with love and do and say what you will with what you can accept and live with integrity and peace within yourself. Blessings of peace, perseverance and good cheer be yours as you continue your day. Deb
Sometimes I wonder if we learn more in the less enjoyable company. I agree we have the opportunity to learn every day.
AMEN, Pilgrim! Sometimes, like today, I am tired.
Well said, Antoinette. I quite agree.
Oh, good question, Carol!! I will be contemplating that!
Kathleen’s prayer is a terrific mantra to repeat throughout the day. I also like the quote by Teihard deCardan “Above all, trust in the slow work of God. We are quite naturally impatient in everything to reach the end without delay. ” When I feel attacked my reaction is defensive and attack back. But I strive to respond by breathing compassion, for them and me, and that may take the form of distance so I can bless the situation even if I don’t understand it.
Kathleen’s prayer is a terrific mantra to repeat throughout the day. I also like the quote by Teihard deCardan “Above all, trust in the slow work of God. We are quite naturally impatient in everything to reach the end without delay. ” When I feel attacked my reaction is defensive and attack back. But I strive to respond by breathing compassion, for them and me, and that may take the form of distance so I can bless the situation even if I don’t understand it. Peace and good cheer be yours, Antoinette!
Thank you, Ose. As I tell her, I have loved and always will love her, I hope that some day she will remember the love we once shared with joy. It may not happen on this side of the grave, but I do believe it will happen. God’s blessings upon your continued journey toward Wholeness and healing of relationships, Ose.
Thank you for your words, Antoinette. I remember reading once “Go with the flow or be dragged.” I think it more grace filled in these instances we both face, to go with the flow. Happy Mothers Day for you, too, with all the wonderful and difficult moments!
I quite agree with you, Antoinette. It is good for me to be reminded. Thank you. Deb
May God bless your memories, Michael, and grant you remembered laughter! Deb
Caroline, I have been where you are and those are the same things I experienced, too. Blessings of moments of relief and good cheer be yours! Deb
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