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Gratefulness
Today I am grateful to be alive, to feel, see and know the grace and power of something we call Spirit. That alone is joy and gift enough!
Some of the places that I routinely feel at home with, or in, are: Our own home! Our Quaker meetinghouse, On West Island Beach, In a whaleboat, And in my bed.
My family, my life, my friends and neighbors, my faith community and my fellow human beings.
Thus far, I have my life and I enjoy sharing much of it with those around me in various ways, including with family members and with friends while rowing, and doing photography that benefits others. I have the gift of reasonable financial security, compared to some, and I try to remain mindful of this each and every day. Though the experts say we shouldn’t give money to panhandlers at busy intersections, I almost always do. These days I keep $10-$20 dollars of rolled up $1 bills in my car a...
Thus far, I have my life and I enjoy sharing much of it with those around me in various ways, including with family members and with friends while rowing, and doing photography that benefits others. I have the gift of reasonable financial security, compared to some, and I try to remain mindful of this each and every day. Though the experts say we shouldn’t give money to panhandlers at busy intersections, I almost always do. These days I keep $10-$20 dollars of rolled up $1 bills in my car and when the lights are right, I offer one dollar to people standing there. My logic is that they’re hungry, and I am not. They’re cold, and I certainly am not. Now and then I offer a $5 Dunkin Donuts card out the window, because I’m on my way home from rowing to breakfast, and these folks are standing out there in the freezing cold, and by some luck of the draw, I am not standing there with them.
I’ve got nothing “ode-wise” in my head, the most I’ve done is drag my bones from bed!
Oh gosh, there are so many! Most significantly are the Quaker luminaries that, during their lifetime heeded a call of the Spirit to witness and work on behalf of the underserved and marginalized persons in whatever setting they found them. George Fox, John Woolman, Elizabeth Stanton, Carolyn Stevenson, each in their own way and time challenged their governments, endured being jailed, and forged new ways forward for worshipping God and living a noble life of service to others. And within my li...
Oh gosh, there are so many! Most significantly are the Quaker luminaries that, during their lifetime heeded a call of the Spirit to witness and work on behalf of the underserved and marginalized persons in whatever setting they found them. George Fox, John Woolman, Elizabeth Stanton, Carolyn Stevenson, each in their own way and time challenged their governments, endured being jailed, and forged new ways forward for worshipping God and living a noble life of service to others. And within my lifetime, Quakers who, in one way or another, helped to shape the person I am today were Jim Toothaker, David Douglas, Ruth Martucci and Ruth Howland. These Friends, who lived and died within my lifetime, have inspired me greatly.
I am reasonably content with where my heart, spirit, actions and expressions of love are with respect to the world. It is my sense that it is less about “bigger” and “more,” about being present for each quiet and unseen moment where love is released to do its work. – Kevin
Now and then I find myself struggling with an approach to an issue I am dealing with. It rumbles around in my head until a moment arrives when my wife, after listening to me, says, “Maybe you should think of it like this…..” And presto, approach to the problem is solved!
That my nation’s leaders will one day demonstrate, through their actions and behavior, the ideals of which they profess and seldom attain, for the benefit of my country and its people
I can only hope that I am making a difference when my wife and I give to charities that we feel need our support. Beyond that, I look for ways to support people around me who are struggling in various ways. I do what I can but admit that it bothers me to know that I am only scratching the surface of the unrelenting need of so many.
Thank you all, for your gentle nudges, reminders and camaraderie in this space!
For starters, a few historic Quaker luminaries, including a few present day elders have all helped me to live what I hope is an authentic life. Yet there are others too, people who have lived or are still living simple and unsung lives with integrity, purpose and conviction, who possess that spark in their eyes and who seem to walk with grace and quiet dignity that consistently inspire me the most on any given day.
It depends on “what” is. For example:
I have enough love in my life so that I am able to share it with others. I have enough material things so I don’t need to be cruising on Amazon. When I have had enough pain in my back I stop and do my stretches. When I have more than enough clothing I drop a box off at the shelter. When I have had enough sitting I get up and head to the gym!
Oh for sure, Aine. Our local Council on Aging also runs food pantries that make their inventory available to anyone regardless of age or address, and the woman who runs it reminds everyone that “your neighbor likely just left.” Happy holiday to you and yours.
I like the first come first give approach. Though more recently, it seems that needy people are panhandling on almost every corner with a red these days. One day a month or so ago I passed out four one dollar bills just running errands.
Hi Karen, that’s a good idea…to ask their name. I usually saying something like “take care of yourself,” which always feels a bit lame, actually. Moving forward, i think I will begin to follow your example.
Thanks Ose, wishing you a brand new day today of vivid colors! My very best to you.
Love this, Ose. Yes indeed!
Thanks, Aine, I’m on to that site next! Cheers and Peace to you.
Of course you are correct, Anna. And yet, it’s hard not to now and then recall that phrase “The ocean is so vast and thy boat is so small.” But, we do what we can. Thanks again.
Thanks for your comment, Mavorneen. And as I’ve told some folks over the years, if I wasn’t a Quaker, I think I’d be a Buddhist!
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