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Gratefulness
Someone grew and harvested my breakfast. Then it was shipped and sold to me. Someone a long time ago built my house. I benefit from people all over the globe really as I spend my day today. Right now the computer I use was invented and manufactured where? This web site also created and maintained by people that I have never met. I am so thankful.
All my students! Kids come out with the most amazing sincere kindnesses just when kindness is needed.
To feel genuinely humble is a wonderful feeling of being in sync with the universe as it is. It is an inner recognition of divinity. We are all part of a mysterious body of people and we can only be in awe of life.
If I measured it by moments maybe I would be living in the moment. Savoring life and not waiting for something to get over with.
trust and connection to spirit
I think of reverence in regard to people who inspire me, or statues and pictures of people who have contributed so much to the world.
i practice meditation in the morning. On Sunday I sometimes attend a group meditation and on Wed I attend a small group meditation after a talk there. Sometimes I go on weekly or daily retreats. When the inner chatter takes over through the day I need to take a break go to the ladies room and breathe for a few uninterrupted minutes.
I met my friend for dinner yesterday and she is now reunited with her daughter and son. They had been estranged for some years. It was a delight to hear this news. I felt delight when my son landed an internship that he wanted. I felt delight when I looked outside this morning and saw that my tulips are still growing strong and will bloom soon. I delight in the anticipation of blooms. I felt delight when my colleague complimented my work yesterday…. when my students toned it down quickl...
I met my friend for dinner yesterday and she is now reunited with her daughter and son. They had been estranged for some years. It was a delight to hear this news. I felt delight when my son landed an internship that he wanted. I felt delight when I looked outside this morning and saw that my tulips are still growing strong and will bloom soon. I delight in the anticipation of blooms. I felt delight when my colleague complimented my work yesterday…. when my students toned it down quickly in response to my request… when I remembered to breathe and focus on my breath when I got too much into thinking and analyzing and planning….when I tuned into a gratefulness video that put my anxiety at rest for a while.
coming back to the breath
Whatever insight and wisdom I have. The love I have for people in my life. These will sustain me while I have my life. My appreciation for life itself.
I care for those close to me. I care for myself when I recognize the pain I am in. I care for my students. I care for people everywhere when I see the news and think about the world situation. The world is now a small place.
After making some kind of effort for something worthwhile. For instance after making Easter dinner for the family yesterday. At work when my lesson plans turn into great learning for my students. Other times not to do with doing are the times I am alone or with my family or immediate friends and it is harmonious and joyful.
I struggle with how to connect with my adult son. He has social anxiety and non verbal communication disorder which is on the spectrum of autism and adhd. He struggles with how to be successful in life. He is almost 28. He has academic ability and completed difficult college courses but nothing comes of any of them. He retreats and loses himself in reading. He loses jobs easily and he can’t find another one easily. A few months ago he was offered a job in a family business but it didn&...
I struggle with how to connect with my adult son. He has social anxiety and non verbal communication disorder which is on the spectrum of autism and adhd. He struggles with how to be successful in life. He is almost 28. He has academic ability and completed difficult college courses but nothing comes of any of them. He retreats and loses himself in reading. He loses jobs easily and he can’t find another one easily. A few months ago he was offered a job in a family business but it didn’t work out. Now he is depressed understandably. I want him to be self supporting and I really want him to be happy. My opportunity is to practice equanimity. ” No matter how I might wish for things to be otherewise, Things are the way they are.” Also, “All beings are owners of their actions. Their happiness or unhappiness depend upon their actions and not upon my wishes” Also,I care for you but I can’t control your happiness or unhappiness” Also “M ay my heart open to this experience with balance and ease” These prayers offer me an opportunity to put worry and anxiety aside.
I sit in a small room when I reflect. Where is there beauty? I have an altar. Above the altar I have a picture of my family of origin. Beside the altar lots of inspirational books and teachings. The rest of the things in the room to me is “stuff” These items are symbolic of deep meaning and true beauty.
Starting today I can pay attention to my thoughts and reactions. I can ask myself Is there a story behind any of these thoughts. Can I drop the story? If I can do that something more meaningful will emerge because I will be more in touch with my true purpose here in this life.
I would characterize them as my attitudes, defenses, ways of seeing that are in my life that are not helpful. It is wise to cultivate self acceptance, forgiveness, gratitude, generosity, kindness, patience and love to overcome these. Because we are not perfect the weeds will always be there to remind us of our humanness.
I woke up early stressing about a challenging day at work ahead. I hope to go back to sleep for an hour. However, for the last hour I tried unsuccessfully to focus on my breath calming my body and mind. It is always there. It is the one thing while we are alive that we can count on. It brings us back to our inner world. So this question is timely for me. I am reminded to practice again. Try again. Its what we do in this life. Moment by moment come back to the breath.
I realize more and more how precious life is
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