Daily Question, July 7 What have I learned lately? 39 Reflections Share Click here to cancel reply.Please log in or Create a Profile to post a comment. Notify me when someone replies to my comment via e-mail. Ed Schulte7 years agoEd SchulteThe same as I have to re-learn, or better said, penetrate with comprehension, every day. “We say that the our human form is also known as Spirit-body, it is not so much as a “body” but it is a kind of form, but again it is so difficult to comprehend a “form” that contains EVERYTHING in the worlds of existence, within it.” 1 Reply Hot Sauce7 years agoHot SauceMay Questions: There is an account in which a Buddhist monk has a mystical experience and realizes that all people are simply one person, and "no individual ever existed" (this is found in The World's Religions by Huston Smith). Could this mean that Vedanta is right when it says that all things are only one thing? Or is a Samkhya-like interpretation still possible in which everything is simply part of the whole, like a drop of water in the ocean? There are many ways in which world religions see... May Questions: There is an account in which a Buddhist monk has a mystical experience and realizes that all people are simply one person, and “no individual ever existed” (this is found in The World’s Religions by Huston Smith). Could this mean that Vedanta is right when it says that all things are only one thing? Or is a Samkhya-like interpretation still possible in which everything is simply part of the whole, like a drop of water in the ocean? There are many ways in which world religions seek to develop a person ethically, but do all of them really help a person achieve that? Can the Ten Commandments or the wisdom of Confucius, for instance, guide a person the same way hearing the voice of God directly can? Do our inner desires really lead us to fulfill our dharma, or are these just selfish illusions created by the ego? May Insights: Eating mindfully is an important way of developing gratitude for everything in life. The Ten Commandments are a basic moral guide that help a soul develop essential virtues for the soul’s evolution. Luther’s explanations, as well as rabbinical interpretation and Matthew 5-7, are helpful tools for interpreting these commandments. A child should make it a habit to do what pleases one’s parents, so as to make this duty easier on oneself. It is important to listen to others, especially if we disagree with them. At the very least, even if we still strongly disagree, we have a better understanding of where they come from and will have less judgment. This includes people who are intolerant. We need to understand where the intolerance comes from and empathize with it (this is easier said than done, and I am preaching to myself more than anyone else). Caring for one’s animal companions is an essential duty, since they are evolving souls, teachers, and actors in the life-drama, like we are. Listening to people when they correct us is important, even if it is tempting to be defensive if they come across harsh. Again, even if we end up disagreeing with them, when we actually listen, we know where they come from. Speak less, and hear more (yes, I see the irony. LOL). When people think of religion, myself included, they usually think of indigenous religions, Hinduism, Buddhism, Taoism, Confucianism, Judaism, Christianity, and Islam, but actually it is much more diverse and complex than this, and each religion, no matter how bizarre, interesting, offensive, lovely, frightening, or exciting it is, can allow us to see the world in a whole new way. We often forget about Cao Dai, various forms of syncretism, Spiritism, and even strange blends of Islam, Christianity, and spirit worship in the world. All of these have something interesting to look at though, and we need to see that our own faiths are just one of thousands of interesting ways of experiencing the sacred. In many ways, the current attitudes and behaviors of the United States are comparable to the actions of the Roman Empire during the early Christian era. June Questions: Are world religions really all valid paths to God, or is it best to let go of religion altogether and simply tread the path oneself? Could some religions have validity and others not so much? What is the role of imitatio Dei in the Torah and the rest of the Bible? In what ways, according to the Bible, should humans imitate God? Are encounters with UFOs and aliens actually encounters with the fantasy world of imagination interacting in real time and space, and does this show that the boundary between “real” and “unreal” is blurry? Does the recurrence of the names “Maggie” and “Madeline” (twins at my school in Nebraska and also a pair of names mentioned in a radio commercial) have any relevance? June Insights: Based on various mystical experiences of people, especially near-death experiences and UFO abductions, it seems that all people share a collective dharma to care for the environment, respect creation, live simpler, and not pollute. Jnana yoga can only lead a person so far in gaining moral wisdom. Inner knowing seems to be more important, though the Upanishads, the Bhagavad Gita, the Gospel of Thomas, the Gospel of John, and Summa Theologica are certainly helpful in guiding a soul to furthering spiritual wisdom. I should stop depending solely on religion to guide me but combine it with my own spiritual insights to seek for truth. Since our thoughts are the ultimate creators of reality, our most important duty is to think in ways that are beneficial. The ways of antiquity are usually the best ways. A completely new idea is very rare and, if ever fully present, should be held to scrutiny, as the ancients often had keys to the truth of certain matters. We can choose to let go of blame when we realize that everything, “good” and “bad,” is just part of the process of spiritual evolution. We can stop evaluating everything constantly, let it be what it is, and then we come to forgive naturally. Even if we have trouble not blaming, it is good not to be too hard on ourselves, as we are also going through a process of evolution and are not expected to be perfect all the time. We need to completely change our way of thinking if we are to co-create reality and receive our hearts’ desires. We should always listen to each other to see what we can learn, from both those with whom we strongly agree and those with whom we couldn’t disagree with more (I’m working on this one). If we pray for something and believe we will receive it, it will be so. If you want to attract something into your life, shut up about it, and keep the intention a secret, as it will be fulfilled easier when it is not verbally expressed. Not only do metaphysicians hold this belief; modern-day psychologists who examine goal-setting agree. We do not have to be “positive” all the time, as this is not genuine and deprives us of a truly human experience of the “ups” and “downs” of life. Rather, to attract good things into our lives while still remaining human, we can experience the bad things and even be upset or anxious about them but do so with gratitude for the experience and its lessons and with the truth in the back of our mind that, ultimately, all is well. We should always view ourselves as learning and be open to changing our opinions, as this is not bad nor a condemnation of past beliefs but only an acknowledgment of a further step in one’s evolution. Listening to what others have to say is a way of growing in moral wisdom. Everything is working according to divine plan, as the story of Joseph and the Coat in Genesis and the Qur’an teaches. Having faith in this truth affirms in thought that God’s will is always being done and that everything is perfect, and this thought creates reality. People taken onboard an extraterrestrial spacecraft often find that to control the craft, one must become mentally one with it. The flying saucer travels according to one’s thought, and this is how the ship travels faster than light without violating the laws of time and space. There are various, seldom-heard-of extraterrestrials, much more than the stereotypical “grays,” “Reptilians,” and “Arcturians.” The various species are much more diverse in the experiences of various individuals. One cannot be a good actor without first memorizing the lines. Then, one is fit for art. Hell is other people. Freedom is lacking care for what others think, as this is the same as the ultimate freedom fantasized of in such tales as the “ring of Gyges.” It appears that part of my dharma is to study religion and spirituality and to continue seeking answers to questions about the spiritual nature of reality. July Questions: Does the Law of Attraction really work? How strong is the evidence? Would the lack of a Visa system be environmentally sustainable within the United States? If it can be, why does the United States restrict immigrants? Did Mary Baker Eddy believe that imitatio Dei would lead human beings to become more ethical? July Insights: Equality, the dream of America, is also the dream of God, and so, as Americans and as God’s creatures, we have a responsibility to treat others as completely equal, even those with whom we disagree or who do not treat us well. There are no exceptions. Inner gnosis of one’s divinity seems to have the power of liberating one from sickness and other illusions of limitation, as Mary Baker Eddy taught. It appears that part of my dharma may be to study the history of the Revolutionary War, especially Paul Revere’s role in it, as well as some of the church history involved. There are three main Congregational denominations in the United States: UCC, CCC, and CCCC. Mangrove forests protect waters from runoff pollution and eroded toxins, although Mangroves are in danger because of current human activities. Furthermore, some of the runoff pollution can harm the mangroves, so that once they are dead, later runoff pollution and erosion can harm aquatic life. When dealing with a shark, make eye-contact so they know you are aware of them. They will be less likely to treat you as prey. The demonization of sharks by such films as Jaws is unfair, as sharks are usually fairly harmless, and such media has had negative ecological consequences. Species that are in similar environments under similar conditions tend to evolve in similar ways independently of each other, showing that evolution can be somewhat deterministic. The evolution of intelligence in humans may have been the result of a need for creative thinking for survival, leading to the development of homo sapiens. One of the first waves of immigration in the United States took place in Boston, Massachusetts. Originally, the United States did not have a Visa system for immigrants, and anyone could migrate legally, which led to a huge population explosion at one point. I could not pass the immigration test because of my lack of US history knowledge. That’s pretty sad! LOL. Artificial bees are being created by scientists in case our irresponsible behaviors and use of pesticides and herbicides cause them to go extinct. It’s pretty pathetic that that’s the direction we’re headed. Robots are replacing bees! Should we have another mass extinction, while this appears to be bad and is somewhat unfortunate, there is also the wonderful possibility of a brand new creation full of new biodiversity! Engineers are currently working to create a train that will go 7,000 MPH, faster than a commercial airline! This train will be more environmentally sustainable than current modes of transportation; however, good luck with that under the current administration! Various robots became popular contraptions to own during the twentieth and early twenty-first century. A man who fought in the Revolutionary War often said that if he died he wished to “go out with a bang.” Apparently, he died by lightning strike! Paul Revere burned two lamps in the belfry of the Old North Church to signal that the British were going to arrive by sea to attack. The poem, “The Midnight Ride of Paul Revere,” was written on the brink of the American Civil War to inspire Northern Americans to maintain their sense of patriotism and faithfulness to American values. Much of Boston, Massachusetts is artificial human-made land. The entire Logan International Airport, including the runway, for instance, is entirely on human-made land. Don’t leave your wallet or anything else in your pocket when going through the TSA checkpoint at the airport. They really enjoy feeling around your junk if you make that mistake! LOL. Beetles are the most diverse species known in the world. Traveling on a commercial airline from Earth to the Sun would take about 17 years. The rings around Saturn are actually old debris from a moon that had been crushed by Saturn’s gravitational pull. Scientists believe Mars used to have tons of water on its surface. Currently there is only evidence of this from the past, but there is still solid ice on Mars’s surface. Mitochondria in the neural cells of many schizophrenics and those with other psychotic disorders often appear different than usual mitochondria. Particular genes inherited within chromosomes increase the likelihood of having a mental health challenge. Ray Bradbury, author of Fahrenheit 451, made frightening predictions (that he said he was trying to prevent from coming true), many of which are happening. One example is Facebook-like social media methods of communication (not sure if this site would count, but I at least think this place is more helpful than typical social media). Scientists, archaeologists, and historians classify objects, fossils, animals, tracks, tools, and artifacts according to their time periods, uses, behaviors, appearances, tendencies, and designs in order to find objects later and figure out when they likely existed and what their function likely was. Such predictions are made based on these classifications of what is already known. The Hal 9,000 from the movie, Space Odyssey, shows disturbing parallels with the current phone app, Siri. The Three Laws of Robotics, discussed in the mid-twentieth century and later adapted in the Will Smith film, I-Robot, are as follows: a robot must never harm a human or allow a human to come to harm through inaction; a robot must always obey human commands unless such commands would conflict with the First Law; and a robot must defend its own existence unless such defense conflicts with the First or Second Law. According to Edward O. Wilson, human intellectual pursuits, including science, religion, arts, spirituality, philosophy, and history may have ancient roots in evolutionary advantage. The exact cause of shell disease in lobsters is currently somewhat of a mystery to science, though scientists are in progress of finding the truth of the matter. The Queen Bee is the only female of the hive capable of reproducing. I have learned much more than this, but this will do for now, as it is already a mouthful! Read More2 Reply James B7 years agoJames BI have learned to trust my own instincts more and to look within instead of validation from the outside. My sense of being is not dependant on any person, place or thing. And recently, I’ve learned to say ‘no’ without guilt. Farewell to the people pleaser… hello grateful soul!! 2 Reply Susan7 years agoSusanTo go beyond what I can’t change and instead of complaining about it, let go of what is bothering me (there are many things and situations where I can choose to step away from) and reach out to what brings me joy, harmony and peace. And if I am in a chaotic situation that I don’t like, I can take a deep breath and let it out slowly to ground myself and find a sense of inner calmness. 4 Reply Ben7 years agoBenI’m resonating with what Ose wrote, about learning to be vulnerable and seeing that this doesn’t result in me being pushed away (as I fear), but usually leads to more genuine closeness. I’ve also been learning that I could sing all day, every day, and be deeply happy. And I've learned how lucky it is to have others to show up for as a therapist, as it draws me out of my patterns of thought (that often swirl around all I lack) and absorbs me in compassionate connection and presence. And ... I’m resonating with what Ose wrote, about learning to be vulnerable and seeing that this doesn’t result in me being pushed away (as I fear), but usually leads to more genuine closeness. I’ve also been learning that I could sing all day, every day, and be deeply happy. And I’ve learned how lucky it is to have others to show up for as a therapist, as it draws me out of my patterns of thought (that often swirl around all I lack) and absorbs me in compassionate connection and presence. And I’ve learned that others also want to be there when I reach out, and that this can be a gift to offer them, this entry point into the circle of giving-and-receiving… Read More3 Reply Debbie D7 years agoDebbie DHi to my old and new friends, My iPad is now bouncing me off various sites. I contacted my Internet carrier and they told me that my connection was fine. My iPad is an extremely old (decrepit) one, and I think this is the problem. I am going to take a break from technology, and look for another computer. I will return when I have it set up. <3. Blessings to all. 2 Reply Palm7 years agoPalmLooking forward to seeing you again 0 Reply Anna7 years agoAnnaSee you soon dear Debbie! 0 Reply Anna7 years agoAnnaThis is my my today post in Gratitude Lounge, and I believe it can be also my answer to the question: This morning, while driving to workplace, i felt a deep sense of gratitude towards that God I pray. I actually felt that it is His will that I am now just as I am, and that it doesn’t matter if I am not perfect. His mercy is in every experience, and the path He wants for me is passing even through this gratefulness site, together with you all, learning what is the meaning of sharing, of a ki... This is my my today post in Gratitude Lounge, and I believe it can be also my answer to the question: This morning, while driving to workplace, i felt a deep sense of gratitude towards that God I pray. I actually felt that it is His will that I am now just as I am, and that it doesn’t matter if I am not perfect. His mercy is in every experience, and the path He wants for me is passing even through this gratefulness site, together with you all, learning what is the meaning of sharing, of a kind and wholehearted sharing. Now, sitting and relaxing on my sofa, in this hot afternoon, I consider the joy to be here, together with the joy of living my life, now, where I am. I notice that this joy is deep, inside my soul and it is flowing without noise, plateal gestures, but it is creating a new ground for my spiritual grown. Some holes, here and there, on this path, but if it is God’s will, it will works. Read More3 Reply Palm7 years agoPalmDear Anna, I understand what you say, I find the older I get, the easier it’s getting to reach that place of acceptance and peace with myself, isn’t it wonderful? Love Palm 0 Reply Anna7 years agoAnnaYes it is dear Palm. Love, and thanks. 1 Reply Francine Marie Tolf7 years agoFrancine Marie TolfI just read all reflections to date. Thank you, all, for helping me to learn from your own words and wisdom. 4 Reply Debbie D7 years agoDebbie DHi all, When I go to the Gratitude Lounge, my iPad bumps me off, and my screen turns black. It lets me comment sometimes. Other times, I try 4-5 times with same black screen. If I don’t respond or enter much, this is the reason. After a few tries, I have to accept it. My computer was hacked. When I get a new one, I will be able to visit the Gratitude Lounge more consistently. 🙁 0 Reply Deb7 years agoDebI have collected sayings, quotes that resonate within me since 1993. I write them, often in calligraphy, because writing, the pen, ink, paper, movement imprints upon my mind. I reread them frequently, contemplate, pray them. What I have re-learned recently came from an early quote by Lucy Grealy in her book Autobiography of a Face. “I used to think truth was eternal, that once I knew, once I saw, it would be with me forever, a constant by which everything else could be measured. I know now tha... I have collected sayings, quotes that resonate within me since 1993. I write them, often in calligraphy, because writing, the pen, ink, paper, movement imprints upon my mind. I reread them frequently, contemplate, pray them. What I have re-learned recently came from an early quote by Lucy Grealy in her book Autobiography of a Face. “I used to think truth was eternal, that once I knew, once I saw, it would be with me forever, a constant by which everything else could be measured. I know now that isn’t so, that most truths are inherently unretainable, that we have to work hard all our lives to remember the most basic things.” Read More4 Reply grateful sea7 years agograteful seaThank you, Deb, for this quote. I have copied it down in my journal. It is of great reassurance to me as I felt dismay when confronted with the question and my inability to come up with a single thing I had truly “learned” lately. 1 Reply Deb7 years agoDebLucy Grealy was a young woman when she came to this realization, I was in my forty’s and am 60 now. I had hoped to be further along the path of wisdom, knowledge and all things of love. I am better at some of the basics but am having to fine tune constantly. I take great comfort in this quote. 1 Reply Ginni7 years agoGinniWhat I continue to learn is the importance of letting go… In particular the letting go is about relationships that are no longer viable. I am learning that I do not have to be angry to do this, rather the goal is to let go in a more neutral manner…in my heart and mind wishing the individual all the best, and being thankful for the lessons I have learned. Not that any of this is easy!!! 3 Reply Antoinette7 years agoAntoinetteI have been taking a course in awareness mindfulness training. I have learned some techniques to help when we get in the thick of things. When we feel those emotions that we don't want to feel and we may "flip" our lid or the ones where we may feel anxiety or fear. We can try to remember to remember. We can try to be in the present moment, without pushing it away by using RAIN. RAIN R- Recognize ( notice how you feel in the moment) A- allow (be there with the feelings) I- investigate ... I have been taking a course in awareness mindfulness training. I have learned some techniques to help when we get in the thick of things. When we feel those emotions that we don’t want to feel and we may “flip” our lid or the ones where we may feel anxiety or fear. We can try to remember to remember. We can try to be in the present moment, without pushing it away by using RAIN. RAIN R- Recognize ( notice how you feel in the moment) A- allow (be there with the feelings) I- investigate (ask yourself how you feel and allow with open kindness to yourself) N- not identified ( have a natural loving awareness) Read More4 Reply Anna7 years agoAnnaThank you Antoinette. This is so precious for me, so thank you for your post. 2 Reply Antoinette7 years agoAntoinetteYou’re welcome Anna! I have been practicing it and it’s a useful tool to help me come back to the present moment where everything is just fine. 1 Reply Gina7 years agoGinaThat the body and mind are incredible!- much learning to be had…. My friend has had her tumour removed and is now home! As for my body and mind, they are in a constant state of trying to be in sync…..thank goodness for yoga….bridging that disconnect for me….. 4 Reply Michael7 years agoMichaelThat a sense of humor is a necessary philosophy for life that too few folks follow. 3 Reply Michael7 years agoMichaelthat James Baldwin is amazing. that whomever comes up w these daily questions on a daily basis is amazing. that our “legacy” is not one thing but really every life we touch each day. 6 Reply Palm7 years agoPalmTo be less reactive 2 Reply Debbie D7 years agoDebbie DBoy- is this an important one! 1 Reply Antoinette7 years agoAntoinettePalm, Amen! Tody and last night I have been on an emotional rollercoaster. I have been trying to use the teachings of – RAIN to help me and I am finding it is hard to remember to remember! RAIN R- Recognize ( notice how you feel in the moment) A- allow (be there with the feelings) I- investigate (ask yourself how you feel and allow with open kindness to yourself) N- not identified ( have a natural loving awareness) I believe that I can change if I want to. I also want to be less involved with ... Palm, Amen! Tody and last night I have been on an emotional rollercoaster. I have been trying to use the teachings of – RAIN to help me and I am finding it is hard to remember to remember! RAIN R- Recognize ( notice how you feel in the moment) A- allow (be there with the feelings) I- investigate (ask yourself how you feel and allow with open kindness to yourself) N- not identified ( have a natural loving awareness) I believe that I can change if I want to. I also want to be less involved with emotions altogether. This mind train requires a huge amount of patience and kindness towards ourselves! I am so amazed at how challenging this all is! Wow! Here is to doing our best! Cheers! ???? Read More2 Reply Palm7 years agoPalmYes Antoinette, it is soo challenging !! But for me, having realised that I need to practice this for the sake of my daughter, is a huge step. Thank you for sharing this technique, I can already see how helpful it can be. I also try to remember that emotions are temporary, like the weather. So, cheers to keep trying and letting it RAIN ! ???? 0 Reply Kevin7 years agoKevinNot enough. But I am grateful that there is still time. 3 Reply Debbie D7 years agoDebbie D😉 Kevin, How is your dog? 0 Reply Kevin7 years agoKevinHello Debbie, you are very kind....our dog Gracie is doing very well these days. On August 2, it will mark her first year of being totally blind. She tools around the house and outside in the yard without a leash, which is enjoys greatly. (We have an invisible fence system installed that we put in when she was a puppy, so she knows where she can venture outside and where not. She loves to go for car rides with me and on walks (on leash on conservation trails and nearby beaches too. All in all s... Hello Debbie, you are very kind….our dog Gracie is doing very well these days. On August 2, it will mark her first year of being totally blind. She tools around the house and outside in the yard without a leash, which is enjoys greatly. (We have an invisible fence system installed that we put in when she was a puppy, so she knows where she can venture outside and where not. She loves to go for car rides with me and on walks (on leash on conservation trails and nearby beaches too. All in all she’s quite remarkable. Thanks again for asking. I hope too that things are well with you my friend. Read More0 Reply Ose7 years agoOseLately, I learned much about vulnerability, of my own and of others. To see the beauty in it and the opportunity to be more visible and so more understood by others in what before felt like a reason to be excluded. I am deeply grateful for letting go of attached fear, as it helps being even more compassionate with myself and others and it makes me realize even more that we are all in the same boat, no matter what the "fault" may be like. Embracing this with kind respect towards myself and one an... Lately, I learned much about vulnerability, of my own and of others. To see the beauty in it and the opportunity to be more visible and so more understood by others in what before felt like a reason to be excluded. I am deeply grateful for letting go of attached fear, as it helps being even more compassionate with myself and others and it makes me realize even more that we are all in the same boat, no matter what the “fault” may be like. Embracing this with kind respect towards myself and one another. Read More5 Reply grateful sea7 years agograteful seaYes, thank you for sharing this. I breathe it in as inspiration to practice. Kind respect to you, Ose. 1 Reply Ben7 years agoBenYes! Thank you for putting this into words for me so deeply and elegantly Ose – reflects a deep learning happening in my life as well… 1 Reply Pilgrim7 years agoPilgrimBrave steps, Ose, and never easy. 1 Reply Christina7 years agoChristinaI’ve learned that I have blocks to God in my life; and that I can work to remove them for a more serene life! 4 Reply Malag7 years agoMalagThere is only the next choice. Like most of us, I guess, I make good and poor (or less optimal) choices. I don't think that that ever really falls away: it's part of being human. A poor choice can suck us into more of the same. But the bit I'm learning is that I can hit the reset button after a poor one and look at the present situation as a choice now rather than carrying past negativity into the decision. That can give me the space to appreciate my choices now and look at it with a better pe... There is only the next choice. Like most of us, I guess, I make good and poor (or less optimal) choices. I don’t think that that ever really falls away: it’s part of being human. A poor choice can suck us into more of the same. But the bit I’m learning is that I can hit the reset button after a poor one and look at the present situation as a choice now rather than carrying past negativity into the decision. That can give me the space to appreciate my choices now and look at it with a better perspective and hopefully a better outcome. Read More4 Reply Debbie D7 years agoDebbie DThis goes along with self-compassion. I’m glad I read your entry. Thank you. 0 Reply 1 2 Next » My Private Gratitude Journal Write an entry in your private gratefulness journal Get Started This site is brought to you by A Network for Grateful Living, a 501(c)(3) nonprofit. All donations are fully tax deductible in the U.S.A. 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