The reality of the core motivation that got me into the mode of complaining. What might be underneath is the motivation to work harder, and achieve more goals.
I believe I am scared that if I do not phrase my complaints will mean that I settle for things the way they are. Underneath my complaints is acceptance, trusting that the universe has my back, letting go which is actually the key to start receiving.
I find that the things in life I find extremely unpleasant, even unbearable, often turn out to be the best worst things that ever happen to me. Complaining is a common habit for some because we are unable to see that the situation is serving a greater purpose. My deepest struggles, sorrows, and heartaches have made my life so much more adventurous and joy-filled. It is a matter of seeing behind the illusion of things being “bad” or “unfair” and seeing the higher purpose they are serving.
Hi Hot Sauce, I can agree that my deepest struggles and sorrows have perhaps matured me and made me a better more compassionate person, but it's really hard for me to say that they have made my life more joy-filled. And here is a strange confession: I have without a doubt suffered more from "small" stuff - noisy neighbors, bass pounding through the walls for hours on end - than I have from the big things in my life. Not sure what to make of this, but I know one thing - complaining seldom helpe...
Hi Hot Sauce, I can agree that my deepest struggles and sorrows have perhaps matured me and made me a better more compassionate person, but it’s really hard for me to say that they have made my life more joy-filled. And here is a strange confession: I have without a doubt suffered more from “small” stuff – noisy neighbors, bass pounding through the walls for hours on end – than I have from the big things in my life. Not sure what to make of this, but I know one thing – complaining seldom helped!
Complaining is misapplied energy. It’s useless. What’s underneath is an open space which, when my complaining is politely sidelined, makes room for my creative energy. I can be FOR something; I can be a blessing!
"If I let go of my complaints, what might be underneath?"
Strangely worded question!
Well it definitely won't be a "what might be" and nor will it be anything "underneath" those attitudes which egoism uses to block off the light of ones Beingness.
What will be "there", above all self imposed negativity, will be what some call the "Eternal Now", that place in which the Pure radiant, colourless, non-reflected Light of ones Truth Selfhood shines, unimpeded, for all to see.
( See th...
“If I let go of my complaints, what might be underneath?”
Strangely worded question!
Well it definitely won’t be a “what might be” and nor will it be anything “underneath” those attitudes which egoism uses to block off the light of ones Beingness.
What will be “there”, above all self imposed negativity, will be what some call the “Eternal Now”, that place in which the Pure radiant, colourless, non-reflected Light of ones Truth Selfhood shines, unimpeded, for all to see.
( See this websites, “Stories of Grateful living” – “After the fall” by Torkin Wakefield for a wonderful example of just one aspect of the this Eternal Light.)
Complaining is the energetic equivalent of mashing the accelerator when we’re already stuck, driving us deeper into our emotional rut. Compassion, gratefulness, humor, and forgiveness on the other hand, are 4-wheel drive for the joyful heart.
The reality of the core motivation that got me into the mode of complaining. What might be underneath is the motivation to work harder, and achieve more goals.
I let go of my complaints some time ago. Underneath was deep contentment for what I had/have and enjoyment of all the little things.
Joy.
I’ll bet we all have those friends who seem to really enjoy indulging in hopelessness. . .
Gratefulness, appreciation , understanding and compassion to name just a few!
I believe I am scared that if I do not phrase my complaints will mean that I settle for things the way they are. Underneath my complaints is acceptance, trusting that the universe has my back, letting go which is actually the key to start receiving.
I find that the things in life I find extremely unpleasant, even unbearable, often turn out to be the best worst things that ever happen to me. Complaining is a common habit for some because we are unable to see that the situation is serving a greater purpose. My deepest struggles, sorrows, and heartaches have made my life so much more adventurous and joy-filled. It is a matter of seeing behind the illusion of things being “bad” or “unfair” and seeing the higher purpose they are serving.
Hi Hot Sauce, I can agree that my deepest struggles and sorrows have perhaps matured me and made me a better more compassionate person, but it's really hard for me to say that they have made my life more joy-filled. And here is a strange confession: I have without a doubt suffered more from "small" stuff - noisy neighbors, bass pounding through the walls for hours on end - than I have from the big things in my life. Not sure what to make of this, but I know one thing - complaining seldom helpe...
Hi Hot Sauce, I can agree that my deepest struggles and sorrows have perhaps matured me and made me a better more compassionate person, but it’s really hard for me to say that they have made my life more joy-filled. And here is a strange confession: I have without a doubt suffered more from “small” stuff – noisy neighbors, bass pounding through the walls for hours on end – than I have from the big things in my life. Not sure what to make of this, but I know one thing – complaining seldom helped!
Complaining is misapplied energy. It’s useless. What’s underneath is an open space which, when my complaining is politely sidelined, makes room for my creative energy. I can be FOR something; I can be a blessing!
Love. Compassion. Empathy. Generosity. Understanding. Love. Love. Love!
Reality for sure; happiness most likely.
"If I let go of my complaints, what might be underneath?"
Strangely worded question!
Well it definitely won't be a "what might be" and nor will it be anything "underneath" those attitudes which egoism uses to block off the light of ones Beingness.
What will be "there", above all self imposed negativity, will be what some call the "Eternal Now", that place in which the Pure radiant, colourless, non-reflected Light of ones Truth Selfhood shines, unimpeded, for all to see.
( See th...
“If I let go of my complaints, what might be underneath?”
Strangely worded question!
Well it definitely won’t be a “what might be” and nor will it be anything “underneath” those attitudes which egoism uses to block off the light of ones Beingness.
What will be “there”, above all self imposed negativity, will be what some call the “Eternal Now”, that place in which the Pure radiant, colourless, non-reflected Light of ones Truth Selfhood shines, unimpeded, for all to see.
( See this websites, “Stories of Grateful living” – “After the fall” by Torkin Wakefield for a wonderful example of just one aspect of the this Eternal Light.)
Complaining is the energetic equivalent of mashing the accelerator when we’re already stuck, driving us deeper into our emotional rut. Compassion, gratefulness, humor, and forgiveness on the other hand, are 4-wheel drive for the joyful heart.
gratitude
Opportunity and fear of action, responsibility, and accountability.
Appreciation for the small things.
Choices and decisions
Invitations yet unnoticed.
A fear of facing problems. Facing ourselves. Stop complaining and actually finding solutions requires work.
I asked my son once who was the happiest person he knew. His reply: “You are, Mom. You just won’t admit it.” Underneath complaints is joy.
There may be solutions to the complains
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